Research brings conflicting results, and experts point out that it's not about magic words, but clarity and structure in your requests.
Does it really matter how we talk to AI chatbots? Like, is it better to be nice, keep questions neutral, or use insults? Research shows mixed results: some say polite phrases can improve response accuracy, others found the opposite.
Experts point out that modern AI models have improved significantly, and small changes in language (flattery, insults, or excessive politeness) don't reliably affect response accuracy anymore. AI doesn't simulate real personality or emotions; it just mimics human behavior. If you want better results, it's better to see AI as a tool, not a person.
How to communicate more effectively with chatbots: ask for multiple options instead of just one answer, give specific examples, let AI ask follow-up questions, and keep requests clear and neutral.
Experts also warn about being cautious with role-playing. While it can be helpful for creative tasks or training (like simulating a job interview), it can reduce accuracy and support "biases" in factual questions. Even though politeness technically doesn't help AI, many people use it out of habit—or a symbolic fear of future robot uprisings.